--- title: Simple Guide to Internal Family Systems (Parts Work) | Counseling 360 description: User-friendly guide to Internal Family Systems (IFS) also known as Parts Work, including details about the Self, the 3 types of parts, and the 8 C's. image: https://www.counseling-360.com/hubfs/ifs%20parts%20self%20diagram.jpg --- [Skip to content](https://www.counseling-360.com/resources/about-internal-family-systems-parts-work#main-content) [![Counseling360Logo_Color](https://www.counseling-360.com/hubfs/Counseling360Logo_Color.png)](https://www.counseling-360.com) - [Therapy Services](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services) - [Individual Therapy](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services/individual-therapy) - [Couples Counseling](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services/couples-counseling) - [Family Therapy](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services/family-therapy) - [Approaches & Modalities](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services#modalities) - [View All](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services) - [Providers](https://www.counseling-360.com/providers) - About - [Services & Specialties](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services) - [Client Resources](https://www.counseling-360.com/client-resources) - [Blog](https://www.counseling-360.com/resources) - [Get in Touch](https://www.counseling-360.com/contact) - [Patient Portal](https://drmary-counseling360.clientsecure.me/) This is a search field with an auto-suggest feature attached. - There are no suggestions because the search field is empty. # What to Know about Internal Family Systems (Parts Work) [Kayla Davidson](https://www.counseling-360.com/resources/author/kayla-davidson) April 9, 2026 at 8:22 PM [Internal Family Systems (IFS)](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services/internal-family-systems-therapy-ifs), also known as Parts Work, has been gaining a lot of attention lately, with many people searching specifically for IFS-trained therapists. But what exactly is Parts Work, and how can it be helpful for therapy? Let’s take a closer look. ![Diagram of Internal Family System (aka Parts Work) and The Self](https://www.counseling-360.com/hubfs/ifs%20parts%20self%20diagram.jpg) Have you ever felt completely torn about a decision? Like one part of you wants to say "YES" while the other is screaming at you "DON'T DO IT"? Or maybe one part of you is ready to let go of something that's been holding you back while another lists all the reasons to stay the same. These experiences are a natural reflection of different "parts" within your mind– each one trying to protect you in its own way, even if they seem to be in conflict with one another. ## What are "Parts"? At the core of IFS is the idea that we are made up of different parts and, importantly, that there are no "bad" parts. Rather than viewing the mind as a single, unified voice, Internal Family Systems understands it as a system of parts, each with its own feelings, beliefs, and roles. Instead of trying to get rid of these parts, [therapy](https://www.counseling-360.com/therapy-services/individual-therapy) focuses on helping you understand and relate to them in a more compassionate way. You might recognize some of your own parts as an inner critic, a people-pleaser, a perfectionist, or even an avoider. These parts often developed earlier in life and have been working hard to protect you ever since, even when their strategies are no longer helpful. ## The 3 Main Type of Parts and the Self Parts Work invites you to build relationships with your internal system, starting with curiosity and openness. To begin, it helps to understand the three main types of parts: **Managers:** These parts try to keep life organized and under control. They often show up as a perfectionist, an overthinker, and a people pleaser. **Firefighters:** These parts react when emotions feel too overwhelming. They aim to quickly reduce distress through behaviors like numbing out, impulsive actions, or avoidance. **Exiles:** These are the more vulnerable parts that carry pain, shame, rejection, past wounds. They are often pushed out of awareness because their feelings can feel too intense. Beneath all of these parts is what IFS calls the Self. The Self is your core, grounded presence and is often described through the "8 C's": - **Calmness** - **Curiosity** - **Compassion** -   - **Confidence** - **Courage** - **Connectedness** - **Creativity.** As you begin to connect with your parts, you can start to understand when they developed and the roles they have taken on. The goal of Parts Work is to build trust with these parts so they don't have to work so hard which will naturally allow your Self to take the lead. ## How IFS Therapy can Help Through IFS practice, including guided meditations and [work with a mental health professional](https://www.counseling-360.com/providers), you can begin to better understand your internal system and reduce the sense of conflict within yourself. Over time, this process can help you respond to yourself with more compassion, feel more grounded, and create lasting internal change. If any of this resonates with you, consider [reaching out to connect with a therapist](https://www.counseling-360.com/contact). We would be happy to help you find someone who can support you in building a stronger relationship with your Self and move toward a more balanced, fulfilling life. 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